The Perfect Summary Podcast

Robert Waldinger draws on 86 years of Harvard data on what people regret at the end, death doula Alua Arthur talks about regrets and forgiveness at the bedside, Mel Robbins replays end-of-life regret as one of her year's most resonant moments, and Arthur Brooks ties family to regret. Looking ahead to those regrets gives a concrete reason to put relationships first while there is still time.

Cesar Millan warns against bringing bad energy home, mediator Bill Eddy explains emotional contagion around high-conflict people, Vanessa Van Edwards says performance and fear are contagious, Susan David discusses social contagion, and Mel Robbins tells parents to let children borrow their confidence. Because the people around you pick up your emotional state, managing your own mood is one of the most direct ways to steady a household or a team.

An FBI undercover, a CIA officer and a Secret Service polygraph examiner all describe trust as something built from signals that can be performed: consistency, warmth, food, a raised eyebrow, a story that holds up. They differ on how much of yourself goes into the act, but the two who worked closest to the worst people both describe real costs to body, mind and family.

Laura Berman describes the 'sex romance stalemate' of mismatched desire, Paul Conti explains sexual mismatch as drives out of balance, Emily Morse helps couples find where they match, and Vanessa Marin describes two types of sex drive. Their accounts show that a gap in libido is common and workable, and that it need not be treated as a verdict on the relationship.

UFC light heavyweight Khalil Rountree Jr. tells Joe Rogan about his DHEA suspension, Thai training, weight cutting and his dream fight with Alex Pereira.

Mel Robbins, her daughter Kendall and producer Amy explain how to pick a North Star and close the distance with emulate, assimilate, innovate.

Neuroscientist Tali Sharot explains why pressure and fear backfire, and how choice, immediate rewards, social proof and progress drive real change.

Yellowstone creator Taylor Sheridan and Joe Rogan talk 1883's brutal history, critics, hunting, energy, politics and why coexistence has to come back.

OpenAI co-founder Wojciech Zaremba on GPT-3, Codex and Copilot, the Rubik's cube robot hand, consciousness as compression, meditation and love.

Mel Robbins and her 18-year-old son Oakley answer listener questions on getting teens to open up, cliques, bullying, phones, anxiety and dyslexia.

Cyc founder Douglas Lenat explains how his team spent decades hand-encoding common sense so AI can reason, explain itself and stop making absurd mistakes.

Myron Golden on wealth as a matter of belief and identity, selling without chasing, faith, loss and raising capable kids.

Evolutionary psychologist David Buss explains what men and women want in mates, why we get jealous, and how evolution shapes love and conflict.

Steven Bartlett shares how he makes decisions: question the story, use the 51% rule, move fast on reversible choices and reason from first principles.

Tom Green tells Joe Rogan about life on his Canadian farm, a mule that reads his mind, a near-catastrophic burn in Costa Rica, and why he left Hollywood.

Old friends Joe Rogan and Bobby Lee finally sit down to talk relapse, 90s Comedy Store tales, writing habits, Star Trek, politics and why podcasts changed comedy.

Comedian Chad Daniels and Joe Rogan cover where jokes come from, funerals, comics lost too soon, Tyson's rise, pool, free speech, Bigfoot and the simulation.

Grimes talks with Lex Fridman about music production, becoming a mother, optimistic futures, AI, consciousness and why we are now Homo techno.

Dr. Ramani explains narcissism as a rigid personality style built on entitlement, busts four myths, and shows how to spot love bombing early.

Ben Askren talks Jake Paul, Jordan Burroughs, his loss to Masvidal, how he built his funk wrestling, coaching, and why he loves Bitcoin.

Mel Robbins walks through six findings on who we spend time with across life, and how to be intentional with family, friends, partners, kids and yourself.

Comedian and novelist Sam Tallent talks touring the world, punk-rock work ethic, the muse, cults, money guilt and politics with Joe Rogan.

Neuralink's first human patient explains how he moves a cursor with his thoughts, what went wrong, and why he chose to go first.

Qualcomm CEO Cristiano Amon explains 5G, how Snapdragon packs a computer into a phone, the chip shortage, and Qualcomm's push into cars and PCs.

Comedian Bobby Lee mixes absurd humor with raw honesty about his father, a recent relapse, recovery, love with Khalyla and finding wonder in life.

Victoria Aveyard's farewell to the Red Queen world: five novellas and a scholar's records that trace a kingdom from its apocalyptic birth to the hard, hopeful work of peace.

Matthew Vines argues, passage by passage, that Christians who hold the Bible as fully authoritative can also bless committed same-sex relationships.

Victoria Aveyard's farewell to the Red Queen world: five novellas and a scholar's records that trace a kingdom from its apocalyptic birth to the hard, hopeful work of peace.

The Holistic Psychologist's guide to why willpower fails, how childhood wires our automatic patterns, and the daily mind-and-body practices that let you choose who you become.

A New Testament scholar keeps the traditional Christian view of sex and marriage while telling the church its treatment of gay people has to change.